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How To Prepare Your Child For Their First Developmental Screening (And What Parents Should Expect!)

Having the right information and planning ahead can help make this an enjoyable experience for your little one. For example, these screenings look at important milestones including motor skills, language development, and social behavior. They offer an opportunity to identify where there are needs for further support.

How To Prepare Your Child For Their First Developmental Screening (And What Parents Should Expect!)

Key Takeaways


  • For example, developmental screenings are key tools to see how a child is developing in areas such as motor, cognitive, and social-emotional skills. They work to monitor development milestones and identify delays as early as possible.

  • Early detection of developmental delays allows for timely intervention, which can significantly improve a child's overall development and reduce the need for intensive services later.

  • A developmental screening is a brief assessment to identify if further evaluation is needed, while evaluations provide detailed diagnoses and tailored support plans.

  • Knowing what to look for in your child’s development at every age helps you keep track of your child’s growth and spot potential concerns early.

  • Preparing your child for the screening through simple explanations, play, and practice activities can ease anxiety and create a positive experience.

  • Become a partner in the developmental screening process! Bring up what you’ve noticed, with your questions, and go over the findings with practitioners to learn how to best nurture your child’s developing skills.


To prepare your child, parents should expect a colorful array of questions regarding your child’s everyday routines! You’ll see lots of hands-on activities that seem more like fun than a test. Bringing something from home, especially a favorite toy or stuffed animal might help with the nerves.


Familiarizing yourself with the format of the screening will help you know what to expect and what it would look like. In the next pages, we’ll walk through those tips, equipping you with powerful knowledge. Together you and your child will be prepared for this experience.


Key Developmental Milestones

Developmental milestones provide a roadmap for understanding your child’s growth across key areas: motor, cognitive, social, emotional, and communication skills. These benchmarks are critical for measuring progress and recognizing where support is needed. Knowing what to expect at different ages helps you stay on top of—and support—your child’s development every step of the way.


Understand Age-Specific Milestones

Milestones change with age, providing distinctive markers to know the child’s progress. For example:


  • 0-12 months: Rolling over, sitting unassisted, responding to names.

  • 1-3 years: Walking steadily, stacking blocks, simple word use.


When you know what to expect, you can keep track of their progress and intervene with appropriate support whenever issues arise. Consider using milestone checklists or milestone-tracking apps to monitor these achievements.


Monitor Physical Development

Physical milestones include crawling, walking, and grasping. It’s all about taking notice during play—things such as tummy time promote healthy muscle development, and using stacking toys builds fine motor skills.


Routine pediatric appointments help make sure your child’s physical development is on track and moving along the way it should be.


Monitor Cognitive Development

Cognitive development includes the ability to solve problems and remember. Look for skills such as manipulating items or identifying known people.


Hands-on experiences such as sorting games or listening to nature walk stories foster curiosity and develop early skills.


Monitor Social And Emotional Development

The development of social skills begins with sharing, turn taking, and expressing emotions. Pay attention to how your child plays with brothers, sisters, or other children their age.


Emotional regulation, such as self-soothing, indicates secure attachment and high self-esteem.


Monitor Communication Development

For example, language development begins with babbling and advances to the production of full sentences. Reading aloud, singing, and talking in baby talk help develop the precursor to language skills.


When you respond to your child, you are affirming what they are trying to say and building their confidence in communication.


Preparing Your Child For Screening

A developmental screening is a pretty normal, standard process. It will give you an idea of how your child is developing in terms of speech, physical movement, and overall learning. Starting at nine months, screenings occur during wellness visits to ensure your child is meeting milestones like sitting up independently, smiling, or waving goodbye.


These well-child visits don’t stop at 12 months – they’re recommended again at 18 and 30 months. Although this might seem like a pretty simple process for parents to follow, children can be left confused or anxious. With a little preparation, you and your child can have a comforting and enjoyable experience, even in the clinic.


Talk About The Screening Simply

Describe developmental screening in child-friendly language, similar to how a doctor would tell you they check height or weight. Share with your child that the screening will be watching how they play, talk, and move.


That's just all part of their typical, regular growth and development! Reassure children’s fears by gently telling them that there are no right or wrong tests—this is just to help you know them better.


Use Play To Explain Screening

Most importantly, turn the concept of screening into something fun. Use toys to role-play scenarios, like building with blocks or drawing together, to demonstrate what will occur.


During play, ask your child to voice any questions to understand their thinking and correct misconceptions, if any.


Practice Fun Activities Similar To Screening

Participate in activities that mirror typical screening procedures. Come up with activities like creating block towers, sorting colored objects, or naming animals.


These quick drills help develop a sense of comfort and confidence.


Bring Comfort Items

Consider bringing along your child’s favorite toy, so they have something familiar packed for the trip as well. Familiar objects can provide a great source of comfort and help calm anxiety.


Have this conversation with your child ahead of time, so they understand that it is perfectly acceptable to bring a favorite object.


Schedule At Optimal Time

Schedule the screening for when your child will be well-rested and calm. Don’t schedule an appointment during a nap or after a change in your routine.


This must-have preparation step will help make sure they are at the top of their game during the session.


What To Expect During Screening

Developmental screenings give you a better picture of your child’s growth and development. They work in four essential areas including social skills, communication, gross and fine motor skills and cognitive development.


Beyond fulfilling an important purpose, these screenings allow us to celebrate milestones, discuss progress and plans, and identify potential concerns early. During the workshop, we will keep your child’s brain engaged with singing, dancing, and storytelling. Look for engaging questions and fun observations tailored to their age and skill level.


Typical Screening Activities

Screening activities are fun and developmentally appropriate. Your child might need to draw basic shapes, stack blocks, or do other tasks such as point to an object when told.


These age-appropriate activities illustrate the child’s fine motor skills, problem-solving skills, and language skills. For example, by nine months a child may be tested on whether they can sit up by themselves.


Professionals try to keep the activities enjoyable and low-stress, eliciting relaxed and genuine responses.


Parent Involvement In The Process

This is why your help as a parent is critically important. You’ll complete a questionnaire about your child’s behavior, like how they play with other children or react to certain sounds.


Sharing these observations — how your child expresses frustration, joy, etc — will help professionals paint the fullest picture of your child’s development. Your active participation helps us provide the best possible representation of our nation’s communities and movements.


Observation And Interaction

During this time, healthcare providers will be looking to see how your child engages with the world around them and understands social cues.


This can mean observing them, seeing how they interact with each other, or how they engage with new toys. Offering authentic behavior during these teachable moments is what matters most, so we want you to encourage your child to explore all the life-long day!


Discussing Concerns With Professionals

Preparing for your child’s first developmental screening can feel overwhelming, but open communication with professionals is key to making the process effective. Specific issues should be acknowledged directly and forthrightly so that they do not undermine the screening or its potential to deliver valuable findings.


Document Observed Behaviors

Collecting a chronological history of your child’s behaviors or milestones is a great first step. Take note of concrete examples, like trouble with eye contact, lagging in replies, or extreme responses to noises.


Remember to track short- and long-term changes—be they advances or regressions—as this allows advocates to paint an accurate picture to professionals. For instance, if your child was previously babbling frequently but has ceased this behavior, this important information can steer the entire evaluation in a specific direction.


Detailed written notes or even short videos can go a long way in visually describing these tricky bird-like behaviors.


Share Home Environment Details

Since your child’s development is very much shaped by what they experience every day, sharing this context is critical. Share a typical day, including things like bedtime routines or playtime activities and what they’re like when talking with parents or caregivers.


If there are challenges, such as frequent disruptions or limited social exposure, mentioning these can help professionals understand the whole picture. For instance, noting that your child spends most of their day in a quiet setting might explain their sensitivity to noise in new environments.


Ask Specific Questions

To make the most of the screening, come prepared with questions like:


  • “What developmental milestones are appropriate for my child at this age?”

  • “Are these behaviors typical, or should I be concerned?”

  • “What happens after the screening if concerns are identified?”


Be Open And Honest

Being open and honest about your concerns is essential. Be willing to discuss your concerns, and understand that the professionals are there to protect medical professionals, not prosecute.


This level of transparency helps to foster trust and provide a reassuring collaborative spirit to address your child’s needs.


Understanding Screening Results

Your child’s developmental screening results are the first step in gaining a complete picture of your child’s development. They provide insights into how your child is meeting developmental milestones and help identify areas where additional support could be beneficial.


By closely reviewing these results you can begin to learn what your child does best, but you can watch for issues that may develop over time. If you don’t understand how to interpret something, asking questions isn’t just helpful, it’s necessary. Being open and honest with your healthcare provider will help you understand your next steps and make the best possible decisions for you.


Screening results might indicate the need for further evaluation or specialized support. For example, if your child struggles with certain developmental milestones, the results may suggest additional assessments to uncover specific needs.


It’s vital to remember that screening results are not definitive diagnoses. Instead, they serve as early indicators pointing to areas that may need closer attention.


Interpreting The Outcome

When interpreting these results, it’s important to compare them within the context of developmental milestones. For instance, if your child is making rapid progress in motor skills, perhaps they could benefit from intervention with speech development.


These results are an indication of how to continue growing rather than setting boundaries. Remember, approximately 1 in 6 children aged 3–17 experience a developmental or behavioral condition. This includes neurodevelopmental conditions, such as autism and ADHD.


The sooner a problem can be identified, the sooner the appropriate support can be provided.


Further Evaluation If Needed

At times, the outcome is ambiguous or there are other issues. In these situations, additional testing is advised. This step includes detailed evaluations by medical specialists to learn more about your child’s requirements.


Particularly, following through is important because some signs of concern may not be immediately apparent.


Early Intervention Services

If delays are determined, early intervention services provide children and their families with specialized support based on their unique needs. Therapeutic options such as speech or occupational therapy make up for specific developmental deficits.


Connecting families to these services as early as possible supports optimal development and leads to better lifelong outcomes.


Creating A Support System

  • Connect with other families for shared experiences.

  • Involve educators and healthcare providers for collaborative guidance.

  • Construct a support network for your child—and your family.


Post-Screening Support And Resources

Here’s what you’ll need to do. By learning about the resources and support that’s out there, you’ll be better equipped to tackle this new journey with confidence and clarity.


Connect With Support Networks

At Dr Ashley Pediatrics, connecting with local and online support communities can make a significant difference. These networks often link parents facing similar challenges, providing invaluable support in both local and online spaces.


Local parenting groups and organizations connected to national programs, such as the CDC's "Learn the Signs, Act Early" initiative, offer personalized, free support and guidance. Engaging with these resources helps you navigate the journey with expert advice tailored to your needs.


Talking about your experiences with others can help uncover effective strategies or resources you may have overlooked. Virtual communities, such as those on Facebook and niche forums, offer flexible and reliable support networks, accessible anytime, anywhere!


Explore Therapy Options

Common options include:


  • Speech therapy for communication challenges

  • Occupational therapy for motor skills and sensory processing

  • Behavioral therapy for social and emotional development

  • Physical therapy for mobility concerns


You need to look into all of them and select personalized pathways that align with your child’s unique abilities and aspirations.


No-cost early intervention programs are available for eligible children from birth to age 3. Through IDEA’s Child Find provisions, these programs are accessible regardless of a formal diagnosis.


Access Educational Resources

Knowledge is power, and being knowledgeable will help you advocate effectively for your child. Free online resources such as workshops can be great free resources, available online.


Your local library or community center might have materials as well. A well-informed parent is attuned to their developing child’s progress as they learn to promote early detection through advocacy.


Advocate For Your Child

Advocacy is crucial when it comes to making sure your child gets the services they require. Communicate with your healthcare providers or educators about your concerns.


Please feel free to submit questions, too, about early intervention or special ed programming more generally! Finally, IDEA provides for children with diagnosed disabilities, allowing access to these critical resources.


Differentiating Normal Variances

Every child grows at their own pace and it’s natural to observe differences in their progression toward developmental milestones. These differences are not necessarily harbingers of disaster. Instead, mostly they’re a reflection of a child’s personality.


For the parent, knowing about these normal variances can make the important difference between focusing on comparison instead of nurture and growth for their child. Keeping watch on the overall trajectory, instead of obsessing over individual targets, is essential to promoting a positive view of progress on development.


Understand Individual Differences

Each child comes to the table with a mix of strengths and challenges, which determines their developmental trajectory. Perhaps one child starts walking earlier but takes longer to learn how to talk. A different child may excel in critical thinking but need additional time to develop their fine motor control.


Understanding these variances can help parents better understand how to customize the parenting process based on their child’s needs. Learn to stop expecting every kid to be a cookie-cutter. Acknowledge their differences to more effectively support and uplift them.


Focus On Progress, Not Perfection

Even the smallest of milestones, such as being able to sit up without assistance by nine months, can be crucial signs of development. Whether with a few months, a few years or a few decades of delay, marking these milestones keeps things looking up.


Development looks different for each child, and every step along the way, fast or slow, is just right for them. By prioritizing progress over perfection, families can foster development that celebrates the journey and commits to ongoing efforts instead of demanding immediate results.


When To Seek Further Advice

  • Lack of sitting unsupported by nine months

  • Concerns about language or motor skill delays

  • No response to social interaction or limited engagement


So the advice is, trust your instincts. Early intervention services, available through programs like IDEA, can greatly benefit children under age 3. Public schools can provide continuity of services beginning at age 3.


Conclusion

Preparing your child for their first developmental screening shouldn’t be a scary task. By taking a few simple steps you can set the stage for a smooth, successful process. From learning about milestones to preparing for the day, every effort you make helps your child feel supported and confident. It’s important to understand that screening is a tool to learn more about your child, not a pass/fail test. It opens doors to helpful resources when they’re required, but most importantly, it empowers you with clarity.


Be aware, listen to your gut, and continue to be your child’s best advocate by engaging with experts. You are your child’s best advocate, and your advocacy will make a difference. Begin now by taking these simple tips and ensuring that your child will thrive at every stage along the way.


Frequently Asked Questions


1. What Is A Developmental Screening?

A developmental screening is a simple and fun activity done to learn more about how your child is developing compared to other kids their age. It will catch any delays early on so that your child can get the care and attention necessary to succeed.


2. At What Age Should My Child Have Their First Developmental Screening?

Developmental screenings usually begin at 9 months of age. Screenings are typical at 18 months and again at 24 or 30 months. Communicate with your pediatrician to help keep your child on track.


3. How Can I Prepare My Child For Their First Screening?

Prepare them so they’ll feel safe and secure. Make the experience stress-free by explaining what will happen in easy to understand terms. Consider bringing favorite toys or snacks to help your child feel comfortable at this visit. Make the appointment for a time when your child is well-rested and fed.


4. What Happens During A Developmental Screening?

This might mean a healthcare professional asks your child questions, observes their behavior, or uses simple tests. For example, they’ll check children’s skills in speaking, moving, and interacting with others.


5. Should I Be Worried If My Child Doesn’t Meet Every Milestone?

Not by a long shot. Remember, every child develops at their own pace. Developmental screenings are tools that can determine whether a child should be further evaluated or receive additional support. As always, let your child’s pediatrician know about any health or developmental concerns.


6. What Should I Do If The Screening Shows Potential Delays?

Seek specialty care and therapy Follow up with specialists or therapists as needed and/or recommended by your pediatrician. Early intervention can help your child thrive. Inquire about available resources and developmental support services in your child’s school or community.


7. Why Are Developmental Screenings Important?

They help detect delays early, which improves your child’s chances of reaching their full potential through timely support and interventions. It’s a positive, proactive step for their future growth and success.

Introducing Dr. Ashley Tyrrel: Your Premier Partner in Child Developmental Screening

Step into a world of exceptional pediatric care with Dr. Ashley Tyrrel, a board-certified pediatrician dedicated to helping your child grow, learn, and thrive. At Dr. Ashley Pediatrics, we believe in going beyond standard checkups by offering personalized developmental screenings that pinpoint your child’s exact needs at every stage.


Imagine the confidence and reassurance you’ll feel knowing Dr. Ashley is just a call or click away—ready to offer virtual consultations or in-home visits tailored to your schedule. With her specialized expertise, Dr. Ashley designs screening plans that combine holistic methods with proven clinical guidelines, ensuring your child receives the best possible foundation for success.


Join us at Dr. Ashley Pediatrics and discover how a compassionate, personalized approach can make all the difference in your child’s journey. Reach out today and let Dr. Ashley Tyrrel be your trusted partner, guiding your little one toward their brightest future.


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